Behold, Thy Mother

For many of us, our mothers are the first people we turn to when we are in trouble, providing comfort, direction, and support when we face challenges. They have always been there for us and exhibited the true spirit of unconditional love. My own experience and testimony echo the enormous sacrifice and love that my mother chose to impart. These sacrificial pieces from my mother were the building blocks of who I have grown to be today, and I am sure the same is true for everybody reading this.

Yes, mothers are truly exceptional. and the Bible has numerous references to mothers, highlighting the crucial role they play in the lives of their children and families. In fact, one of the Ten Commandments instructs us to honor our mothers and fathers.

But what's incredible is that Jesus, the creator and God himself, demonstrated intense care and concern for his mother, Mary. This was vividly apparent during the most difficult and direst moments in Jesus' life—at the site of the cross. As Jesus hung on the cross, his body was in excruciating pain. He'd been tortured and disfigured beyond recognition before being stripped naked, humiliated, and fastened to the tree beams. Every breath he drew was a grueling fight as he hinged on the nails and scraped his back on the wood while forcing himself up and down for a fill. But despite his own intense agony, Jesus took notice of those around him. Mary, the mother of Jesus, stood near the cross, watching her son suffer. As a mother, she undoubtedly felt the pain and anguish of seeing her child in such a state. Jesus, in his love and compassion, turned to Mary and said these profound words: "Woman, behold your son!" Then he said to John, his disciple, "Behold your mother!" (John 19:26-27).

It is remarkable to consider that Jesus had his mother on his mind throughout his great anguish. Jesus' remarks did not simply reflect his concern for Mary's well-being, nor was it a matter of concern for her provision and future care alone. This act was the mark of promise that mandates one of the most powerful relationships on the planet, the one between a mother and her privilege as the carrier of a generation and the human species itself.

THE BEARERS AND THE FOLLOWERS

In Jesus' final words from the cross: Jesus refers to his mother as "woman," a respectful title that emphasizes her strength and resilience. Although this is a literal reference to a biological relationship, Jesus' parting words govern a two-way spiritual relationship in the form of a "mother" who bears spiritual generation and a "child" who follows by submitting to a mentor's authority and care. If Jesus took the time to emphasize this relationship while suffering greatly, we should understand that "Behold, thy son" is a mandate entrusting parents, educators, leaders, and elders with the enormous responsibility of raising a godly generation in the Kingdom. Subsequently, with the decree, "Behold, thy mother," Jesus establishes that children have the honour of being moulded in the Lord's way in submission.

THE MANDATE OF MOTHERHOOD

Therefore, motherhood is a fundamental and vital role that women play in society. It has significant importance in the body of Christ, and the scripture highlights the mandates, privileges, and blessings that come with it from a Christian worldview.

First and foremost, mothers are essential carriers of the human race. God created humans in His image, and He commanded them to "be fruitful and multiply" (Genesis 1:28). This commandment emphasizes the significance of procreation and the continued existence of the human race. Mothers are portrayed as pivotal figures in the growth and survival of humanity throughout the Bible. Eve was created to be Adam's companion, and she played an important role in the birth of their children and the formation of their family (Genesis 2:18–25). Mary, Jesus' mother, is possibly the most well-known biblical mother. She was chosen by God to bear God's Son, and she played an important part in rearing and nourishing Jesus during His earthly life (Luke 1:26-38).

In recent years, there have also been a lot of incredible stories about mothers. Susannah Wesley, the mother of John and Charles Wesley, who played a significant role in the founding of the Methodist Church, is one example of this. Despite having 19 kids, Susannah made it a point to spend time with each one individually and instil in them kingdom values. Charles Wesley wrote over 6,000 hymns, and John Wesley came to be known as the "Father of Methodism," all thanks to a single woman who nurtured and fostered their spiritual development.

Second of all, the mandate of motherhood is not only to raise and nurture children but also to create a godly environment where her family can grow and thrive. Proverbs 31:25–28 says, "She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness. Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her." This emphasizes the importance of a mother's role in shaping the lives of her children and creating a godly legacy that will impact future generations.

THE CALL TO SONSHIP

In the same way, the Bible's mandate for sons to honour and care for their mothers is a call to love, respect, and cherish the women who brought us into this world. The scripture highlights the need for sons to honor and respect their moms. (Exodus 20:12), emphasizing the vital role that mothers play in the lives of their children as well as the obligation to love and cherish them.

Moreover, the Bible teaches that the relationship between a mother and son is a sacred bond that should be nurtured and cherished. In the book of Proverbs, it is written, "My son, keep your father's command and do not forsake your mother's teaching. Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck" (Proverbs 6:20–21). Sons are encouraged to value the wisdom and guidance of their mothers, holding onto their teachings and advice as they navigate through life.

By following this mandate, we can show our appreciation for all our mothers have done for us and glorify God, who created them.

THE IDENTITY IN SALVATION

Ultimately, the beauty and glory of being a human race bearer are not merely a privilege but redemption in and of itself, which was revealed once and now continues unto glorification (1 Timothy 2:15).

While equality propaganda and other parity norms are promoted around the world, there are many privileges for women that are unequalled and cannot be replaced by any other person or position in life. So knowing one's true identity is more important than seeking equality. Because equality is concerned with pursuing and attaining something in others, whereas identity is concerned with one's own liberty and purposeful calling. As a result, prioritizing self-discovery and understanding one's own identity over striving for equality with others is critical. Individuals can gain a clear sense of their values and goals as a result, leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life.

Mother's Day recognizes and celebrates the great mothers who have done and continue to do so much for us. It is a means of expressing gratitude and love for the unshakable love, unyielding dedication, and unending sacrifices that have formed us into the people we are today.

So, to all the mothers out there, we celebrate you. Thank you for being our pillar of strength, confidante, and inspiration. Behold, dear Mother, our salute!